If there’s one thing I’ve learned in this life, it’s that you don’t truly appreciate your parents and all they sacrificed for you until you become an adult. When you are an adult, you have a much better understanding of the demands and responsibilities of life, and I’ve begin to wonder, how did Mom do it all? Looking back, she really was wonder woman – she worked full-time, exercised every morning before work, prepared me and my brother for the day, drove us to numerous after school activities, planned fun trips for us during the summer, and she never once hired help to clean our house. And our house was clean. Always.
And it’s not just about what she did, it’s about how she taught, guided, and loved us. She did it with ease and she let us become who we wanted to be. She focused on what I wanted, and not what she wanted. The best gift you can give your kids is to let them make their own decisions, and my parents were (and still are!) really good at that.
And while we are on the topic of amazing Moms, did I mention I am a lucky girl when it comes to my mother-in-law? She’s rather terrific, and although I’ve only known her for 5 short years, I’m certain she’s one of the kindest, most thoughtful women around. She has the grandma thing down too – my niece and nephew simply adore their “nana” and it’s clear that Patti was made to be around little ones. She’s always giving me insight into Kyle and teaching me about marriage and life, and I am beyond thankful for her unwavering love and support.
Finally, I have one last lady I would be remiss if I didn’t mention. My Aunt Holly also falls into the Mom category, as she’s been by my side since I was a wee one. She’s the kind of person I aspire to be – patient, flexible, and totally unselfish. She puts others before herself. Every. Single. Time. She keeps things in perspective, and on top of everything else, she’s a super smart and wordly lady.
Yippee for Mother’s Day – I am counting my blessings for such wonderful ladies in my life! Cheers to celebrating Moms and all of their selfless acts of kindness.
